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The Greatest Mystery - Smile

Hello and welcome back everybody. I  am really sorry for having been away for so long. However, as you know, there are always some ups and some downs in life, and sometimes, you indeed need to keep your family as your priority.

Well, since we meet ( rather greet ) each other after a long time, the first thing we would have done in case we had met in real life is - to smile. And we do smile, which is regarded synonymous to expressing our happiness.

But, is it always that people smile when they are happy. Well, often a lot of people complain in forums that they have regarded the smile of a girl / man as a "hint" expressing "interest", and have latter regretted for this misconception. So, for all our student friends across the globe, it is really very important to understand - this mystique element of human behavior - "smile".

History has it that when Leonardo created the work of Monalisa, which is one of the most costliest paintings ever, the object of popularity, or parody was the mystique smile of Madame Monalisa. Who was she looking at? Why was she smiling? These questions fueled a lot of curious minds, the answers framed were based on guesses. Well, the power of smile is large - enough to make or break.

So, here are a few smile types -

1. The most common of all - Polite smile, is pretty common one. We wear this smile almost everyday, while we happen to meet our teachers or classmates or colleagues or guests or anybody known to us.

2. The air-hostess smile - Although many would love to break my head after reading this, but it is indeed true, that even if you are an extrovert and outgoing person of a kind, you do not always enjoy to greet people. And, trust me, air-hostesses are not always pleased to have us on board. Sometimes, they might even be eary of their last trip, or they might be having a bad day, or maybe some issues at their personal level. Smiling, is just a part of their duty. Never ever think, that this is a "cue". Even in real life, many people have this ability to mimic this smile. So, beware.

3. The great energetic and lively smile - this is reserved for that best friend / s of yours, with whom you could let loose those guards and enjoy a grand evening. Its when you care to show your teeth as well while smiling, ( excuse me even if it's a breeding ground of cavities, but you do not really care about it, do you).

4. The real romantic smile - the smile with a genuine touch of belonging, which calms you down to the core of your heart, or maybe makes your day. It is the smile when someone is really in love with you, and also know you are in for them as well. And, often, deep passion, connection etc is signified with this type of smile.

5. The smile which lacks all its sweetness - as if from a person who might not have known the taste of sugar since birth. Often, it is this smile, which is cut really short, or it follows a fixed pattern of gestures, or just a curve of the lips and that's all.
These are indeed artificial, and often, if they are presented in an alluring manner, keep an extra shield. That person is definitely trying to entrap you into something very dangerous.

So, now that you know the kinds of smile, the next time, you know, that you would not be fooled to consider every smile - a smile of love. It is really enigmatic to understand human mind. But, a little care, could really save us from falling into a trap, which need not be laid out by someone else, but maybe our own illusion.

Stay tuned. And do share if you like it.

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